"To shake or not to shake;" that is the question. Now that we are into flu season it is important to be aware of how we transmit germs. And shaking hands is one of those ways. Refusing to shake hands can put you at risk for being perceived as an ungracious person. However, if you are acutely ill with something, those around you will thank you for not extending your hand. Offering a short explanation that you do not want to spread your germs will help let others know you have their best interest at heart. After all, that is the basis for good manners; consideration for others.

This is also the time to increase hand washing and the use of hand sanitizers. There are many on the market and they can be carried in a purse or pocket. Remembering to sneeze and cough into your elbow and not your hands can also help prevent the spread of unwanted germs. And if you are very sick...stay home!